Wisdom + Tips

Why Repeating Yourself Isn’t Working

(And What Does) Yes, They Can Still Learn—Here’s How to Reach Them Many people are surprised to hear this, but it’s true: People with ...
Shelley Pillado

Guilt Isn’t Helping You.

It’s Just Making Everything Heavier. Guilt has a way of sneaking into care partnerships and making everything feel heavier than it already is. And ...
Shelley Pillado

Being the Strong One Is Exhausting—Here’s What Actually Helps

(And Why “Support” Has to Mean More Than Just Listening) A close friend reached out to me recently and asked a simple question: “Do ...
Shelley Pillado

“These stay”

What a Renovation Taught Us About Seeing What Still Matters Some things announce themselves before you even see them. You could smell the sawdust ...
Shelley Pillado